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Whether at work or in personal matters, we often have to make phone calls in life. Sometimes it is unavoidable; other times, it’s simply much easier and quicker than searching for a contact form and waiting for a response.
Since most people haven't had particularly traumatic experiences with phones, unconscious associations are often made that don't necessarily fit together. That's why therapy for phone anxiety with hypnosis is so promising. If we want to overcome phone anxiety, we need to eliminate the unconscious causes and blockages accordingly.
Like many phobias and fears, the causes often lie in the subconscious. This does not function the same way as our conscious mind and needs to be approached differently, especially in treating social anxieties.
When we look at phone anxiety from the perspective of the subconscious mind, it’s certainly related to uncertainty. Since most people are mainly afraid of talking to strangers on the phone, this conclusion is obvious. We don't know who is on the other end of the line, how the conversation partner will react, and we have no time to think about a response, as everything happens spontaneously and in real-time.
This means that if someone is not very self-confident or is highly self-critical, making phone calls at work or home poses a risk. Our subconscious protects us from danger primarily through fear. It’s an unconscious signal of a threat, which may only exist in our imagination, but to which we can react as though it is absolutely real.
Sometimes it’s also the case that making phone calls is difficult when someone else is listening. This often involves a certain fear of judgment or criticism. If one is not skilled at tuning out distractions, this can further intimidate those affected.
This fear of making phone calls naturally leads to a kind of blockage, which then doesn’t make phone conversations much smoother. The unpleasant atmosphere or the lack of responses, for example, to unexpected questions, then confirms the fear and can lead to a full-blown phobia. If someone is terribly afraid of making phone calls, it usually didn’t start that way but has intensified over time.
So we can say that the causes of phone anxiety are often related to a lack of self-confidence, fear of judgment, and placing too much value on others' opinions.
Hypnotherapy for phone anxiety generally has two components: The first is the general strengthening of self-confidence and spontaneity, which are important in interactions with others. The other part is the hypnotic communication of what we consciously know—that nothing can happen to us during a phone call. If we make this clear to the subconscious through hypnosis, the threat level of making phone calls decreases.
Most calls don't go according to the plan one has prepared in their head. Additionally, it might be the case that when the phone rings and someone calls you, there’s no time to make a plan.
To prevent fear from arising, whether when receiving or making a call, it's important to develop spontaneity through hypnosis and to trust in your gut feeling. It's not without reason that people say, "Speak from the heart" when they want to make a good impression. The mind is usually not quick or witty enough to find the right words.
This task must be entrusted to the subconscious to overcome communication barriers. To do this, we need to strengthen the connection between mind and heart, between conscious and subconscious, through hypnosis.
Whether answering customer questions, getting your own questions answered, or securing a reservation at a restaurant, a phone conversation is usually something that benefits you.
If we teach this to the subconscious mind, making calls may not become your favorite activity, but it will become something you do for your own progress. When internal dialogues are geared toward positivity, a positive attitude also develops. This reduces shyness, nervousness, and stress, and creates a better mood.
With these steps in hypnotherapy, fluid and anxiety-free speaking can emerge, making it possible to handle misunderstandings appropriately. This way, we can let go of avoidance in making phone calls and confidently pick up the phone with good communication skills.
Whether in phone contact or confidently giving presentations and speeches, the hypnotically learned skills can be transferred to all areas of life for greater success in all types of interpersonal interactions.
Hypnosis for pain treatment is becoming increasingly popular. Not only are operations now often performed under hypnosis in various hospitals, hypnosis can also be very helpful for patients with chronic pain.
So there is no such thing as "the pain", but rather a processing in the brain. However, this is not always consistent.
There are dull, throbbing, stabbing, burning and many other types of pain. Depending on how the pain arises or develops, it can also change or even radiate and move to other places.
Just like the perception of pain, the reaction to it is also different. Some people get angry when in pain, others cower away. Either way, prolonged pain saps your strength.
Our mood can also affect our perception of pain. Pain is experienced more strongly in depression, for example.
So pain can be changed. This means that we can change it with the right techniques. One of the best ways to change the sensation of pain is hypnosis. Hypnotic trance includes phenomena such as analgesia and anesthesia, which can be used.
One of the best ways to change the sensation of pain is hypnosis.
Hypnotherapy can relieve acute pain and reduce chronic pain. For the client, this means that the pain can subside during the first treatment or even that complete freedom from pain can occur. Negative feelings and expectations about the pain can also disappear. The sensation of pain is directly reduced in the hypnotic trance.
Hypnosis for pain can help with all types of pain. This includes, for example
Caution: Pain treatments with hypnosis should only be carried out if the symptoms have been clarified by a doctor.
Time and again in my practice in Zurich, I see pain patients being let down by orthodox medicine after a certain period of time. Perhaps you have already heard one of the standard phrases:
Such statements from doctors can be very demoralizing. However, you should not give up hope.
Fortunately, there are still hypnotherapists who can deal with the problem when other treatments have not (fully) worked. If you don't want to simply live with the pain, hypnotherapy may be the right choice.
All pain originates in the brain.
No matter where the pain receptors detect the injury, they transmit the signals to the brain via the spinal cord.
There, the signals are then interpreted as pain. This does not happen in one specific place, but affects many areas of the brain. For example, emotions and memory are also activated. This is clear because the aim of pain is always to avoid the trigger.
Even if the pain is perceived differently: It is very real for those affected.
Interesting: Because all pain originates in the brain, the brain itself is insensitive to pain.
Hypnosis helps when other treatments have not (fully) worked.
The effect of hypnosis on pain is one of the best-researched areas of hypnosis. The effect of hypnosis for pain reduction is now even used in hospitals to perform operations without anesthesia. Pain can therefore be largely or even completely eliminated with hypnosis.
Although this is designed to have a short-term effect and the pain returns after a certain time, it is a good example of what is possible with hypnosis.
A holistic approach is used in hypnotherapy for pain in order to maintain the pain-relieving effect for longer or permanently. The more we incorporate the client's entire experience, the better the chances of success.
After the preliminary talk, the trance part of the treatment begins:
The first step is usually to free the client from acute pain, if there is any. The sensation of pain can be reduced in the trance. In this way, the client can fully engage with the treatment. It can also be very important to experience that the pain can change and that an improvement is possible.
We can also use this feeling of freedom from pain. We can expand it or let it wander, just as we need it. Sometimes it also helps if we assign a color or shape to the freedom from pain so that our unconscious can remember it better. A kind of mnemonic bridge for freedom from pain.
Pain therapy is most effective when it is tailored to our personal experience. In this step, I let the aspects related to the pain flow into your trance. In doing so, we release the entire pain complex. Emotions, beliefs and hopes can come into play here.
We also listen to the unconscious signals that can play a role in pain. These can be very individual, but it is important to listen. Sometimes backgrounds come to light that would never have been discovered without hypnosis. However, these are all the more important if we want to heal the pain completely. If the pain acts as a signal, it is all the more important to understand it.
It can also be important to focus on a pain-free future, as pain patients often can no longer imagine a life without pain. In this way, we show the unconscious alternatives for the future and can align our work accordingly.
The more aspects of the experience we include, the greater the chance of successful hypnotic treatment of the pain. Furthermore, we reduce the possibility of a relapse if we become aware of the background.
An interesting possibility that only hypnotic trance offers is amnesia. Forgetting usually happens on its own, but it can also be induced intentionally with hypnosis.
If someone has lived with pain for a long time, it may have left its mark on many areas of their life. In order to live pain-free again, it is often necessary to forget the pain. The pain memory, which always leads back to the pain, is erased in this way.
The expectation, or even the fear, that the pain will return can also be removed in this way. This means that the quality of life is no longer restricted in any way by the pain.
Hypnosis is very suitable for treating pain. The unique possibilities of hypnotic trance can also open up new treatment options for long-term pain patients.
Hypnosis is an effective tool that can help in the treatment of inferiority complexes. In this article, I discuss the benefits of hypnosis and explain how it can be used to treat inferiority complexes.
People with these complexes often suffer from feelings of inadequacy and a lack of self-confidence. They lack the ability to recognize their positive qualities and realize their full potential. The feeling of being worthless and undeserving can manifest itself in many different ways.
Hypnotherapy can help with any kind of inferiority problem, reducing self-criticism and devaluation and building a healthy self-esteem. If you feel inferior, hypnosis can help.
Our unconscious wants to ensure our survival at all times. To do this, it is automatically constantly evaluating the situation and other people. This usually does not happen consciously As our unconscious mind is not really based on facts and figures, it is not based on rational considerations but also on a kind of emotional self-image. This self-image is the feeling you have about yourself. If this is negative, we can speak of a feeling of inferiority. Most people experience this in their lives and it can be quite normal. For many, it is even an incentive to improve.
If this self-image is permanently negative and you have the feeling that you come off badly every time you compare yourself, this can lead to inferiority complexes. This constant negative judgment and self-criticism can make you hypersensitive. This kind of feeling inferior can trigger a lot of critical behavior.
This self-image is usually rationalized afterwards, i.e. people look for reasons why other people make them feel this way. This can be based on looks, successes or any other kind of measure. The most important thing is that the feeling almost always comes first.
Sensitivity means that even trivial things in everyday life are evaluated as an attack or threat, and the unconscious reacts to these in four different ways:
This means that either the inferiority can show itself in the form of putting oneself down or I can overcompensate with delusions of grandeur and arrogance.
Auf diese Weise will das Unbewusste ein Gleichgewicht erreichen und seine eigenen Unzulänglichkeiten überwinden.
We learn a lot about ourselves early on in childhood. We begin to treat ourselves in the same way as our environment and, above all, our surroundings treat us. The image of others thus becomes our self-image and children tend to believe what they are shown or told about themselves.
What I often hear is something along the lines of "Nothing was ever good enough for my mother/father". This doesn't even have to be said, the behavior alone is enough for the child to understand something like this.
Even if parents often make comparisons with others or treat others better than themselves in principle, this can unconsciously reduce their own self-esteem.
If someone submits to this negative image of themselves, they may behave in accordance with it, even though they could do better. This often leads to a guilty conscience, remorse or feelings of shame and you make yourself and feel small and insignificant in order to conform to the requirements of this role.
The two images of oneself can also come into conflict, especially when the inner image of the self does not match the image ascribed to it from the outside. Then I often hear variations of "I hate it when someone accuses me of something that is not true". This shows the inner conflict of these demands on one's own being.
If you are very hard and self-critical, then your self-esteem is often in the cellar. Either the reaction is that you don't do anything because it can only be wrong or bad anyway. Or, conversely, someone is constantly running for others to please and prove their own worth through their actions.
In addition, it is hardly possible to accept compliments or recognize one's own achievements. I often hear from my clients that they see their successes as great in their heads, but don't "feel" them.
Many are also driven by an exaggerated sense of duty or an attempt to do everything right. This is also to compensate for self-perceived imperfection. Constant comparisons, especially upward comparisons, also perpetuate the negative self-image.
If you think you are lacking something, you tend to look for it in others. Inferiority complexes in relationships and partnerships can mean that you put up with a lot more than you would with a healthy self-confidence.
Inferiority complexes can be difficult to recognize as they can go in two different directions. However, one can recognize the sensitivity and the fact that one's own is never good enough in most with inferiority complex.
The feelings of inferiority are often not necessarily perceptible as such, but it is rather the way you treat yourself that suggests that you at least unconsciously consider yourself to be inferior.
If you have a certain form of addiction to criticism or are very self-critical, this type of self-doubt may also be present.
Inferiority complexes can have a significant impact on relationships and partnerships. In many cases, these complexes are caused by self-doubt, which manifests itself in the form of insecurity and a lack of confidence. This can lead to conflicts that are difficult to resolve. Another problem is that inferiority complexes are often unconscious. This means that other reasons for jealousy or irascibility are often sought first. Usually initially with the other person.
On the other hand, it is also possible that the symptoms of inferiority manifest themselves as submissiveness and idolization of the other person. I have also had clients who alternated between submissiveness and raging jealousy.
On the other hand, it is also possible that the symptoms of inferiority manifest themselves as submissiveness and idolization of the other person. I have also had clients who alternated between submissiveness and raging jealousy.
Feelings of inferiority are a sense of deep dissatisfaction and inadequacy. People with inferiority complexes often believe that they are worth less than others and for this reason find it difficult to make decisions or persuade others. They tend to exhibit self-doubting behavior and question their decisions, which can ultimately prevent them from moving forward. Low self-esteem can also lead to people not being able to accept or allow criticism. Sometimes it is difficult for a person with an inferiority complex to build confidence in their own abilities and decision-making skills.
When trying to help someone with an inferiority complex, it is important to first better understand and find out what exactly is causing the problem. Through hypnosis, those affected learn to understand and accept what their problem is about and receive help to tackle it effectively and better manage inner conflicts.
Hypnotherapy can be helpful to get rid of inferiority complexes and to be able to continue to participate positively in life without being affected by negative thoughts.
Hypnosis is an effective treatment option for inferiority complexes. Hypnosis has proven to be an effective way to identify and treat the underlying problem. During hypnosis, patients can be led to let go of negative emotions and uncover the roots of insecurity. With the help of hypnotherapy, the patient's self-esteem can be built up and strengthened.
The techniques of hypnotherapy help to allow and strengthen the self directly in the unconscious in order to get blocked feelings flowing again. This can improve the patient's condition by overcoming their negative thought processes and strengthening their self-esteem.
Hypnotherapy is an effective way to address inferiority complexes in a sustainable way. There is promising evidence that the use of this technique can provide positive results for people with inferiority complexes. Therefore, it is advisable to seek professional help from a qualified hypnotist when needed in order to get the most out of the process and build strong self-esteem.
Hypnosis is an effective way to alleviate the symptoms of inferiority complexes. It can be used as a form of hypnotherapy to help sufferers change their thoughts and feelings about their self-image. One of the effects of hypnosis is that it enables the sufferer to delve deeper into their inner structures and concepts and deal with their problems at a deeper level.
In the treatment of inferiority complexes, hypnotherapists can help their patients to reach these levels and develop new strategies for coping with the symptoms. This can be achieved through hypnotic suggestion. In a hypnotic session, we break down what has come from the outside, be it upbringing, childhood experiences or negative experiences, and instead invite the unconscious to use more of the inner nature. Because everyone has everything they need to live with a healthy self-confidence.
To summarize, hypnotherapy can be a valuable tool for treating feelings of low self-worth. Inferiority complexes can be tackled directly at the root cause in the hypnotic trance. In this way we can reduce the negative effects and move away from self-criticism towards support. In addition, emotional wounds can be healed in order to achieve optimal inner balance.
Our own identity and self-worth are deeply rooted within us. It is often difficult to consciously change this. This is why hypnotherapy is very helpful in resolving inferiority complexes, as the causes can be tackled directly in the unconscious.
The reaction to the feeling of one's own inferiority can basically go in two directions: Into submissiveness or overcompensation. The one is manifested by withdrawing and putting up with everything and the other by arrogance or perfectionism
Nobody invents their own inferiority. In other words, you have learned this self-image somewhere. It usually comes from the way you were treated by your parents. But childhood experiences or traumatic experiences can also lead to an inferior sense of self-worth.
Yes, it is possible to resolve inferiority complexes. To do this, it is necessary to change your self-image deep within your own unconscious. The best method for this is hypnotherapy, as the hypnotic trance works directly in the unconscious.
Your own self-worth is usually not set by yourself, but by childhood experiences or treatment by others, especially your parents. If you are shown that you are worth nothing, then at some point you start to believe it.
The repeated touching, squeezing, plucking or scratching of your own skin can range from annoying to destructive.
Either way, it involves a psychological and emotional component. This is exactly the part we tackle with hypnosis against skin picking. Because even if other methods have already been tried, hypnosis can help you to leave yourself alone.
When mania appears in the name, too much energy is usually directed to the wrong place.
Skin picking is referred to as an impulse control disorder. For me as a hypnotherapist, however, controlling impulses is much less important than guiding my clients to the point where they have no impulses at all.
In addition, the question is often asked whether skin picking disorder is an addiction or an obsessive-compulsive disorder.
For me in hypnosis, this does not play a major role. Nor does it matter whether it is a mental illness or a mental disorder.
So the name of the problem is less important to me than the form of the solution. For me, skin picking therapy with hypnosis consists of stopping the skin picking by changing the unconscious triggers and using the energy for positive things.
According to the cliché, the view of hypnosis goes a little deeper with most problems. Because the experienced hypnotherapist knows that the unconscious never does anything just like that.
Even self-harming behavior like skin picking has a certain positive intention. Of course, many of those affected think to themselves "No, that's just stupid" or "I have to stop", but perhaps it is precisely this "making yourself look bad" that is part of the problem.
The unconscious wants survival, not necessarily a good life. For this reason, skin picking is a way of dealing with inner impulses and emotions.
We have to deal with negative emotions, stress or tension somehow. There are more suitable and less suitable techniques. Destroying your own skin belongs in the second category. Nevertheless, it can give us an indication of emotions that are not given enough attention. Anyone who harms someone usually doesn't like that person very much, especially if it's themselves.
It is probably no coincidence that skin picking often happens on the face or in other obvious places. The inside is carried to the outside and not leaving one's own skin alone or even destroying it is therefore usually the ultimate self-criticism. This also creates a vicious circle, because every time you look in the mirror, more rejection of yourself arises.
Skin pickers often reveal a subliminal aggression against themselves. This auto-aggression can also be a sign of rejection of oneself or parts of oneself.
Most people who do skin picking would not describe themselves as aggressive.
However, this is often where the problem lies. Because if you don't allow yourself to let it out and assert yourself, the frustration and stress often remain pent up.
The goal of hypnotherapy for skin picking is, of course, the ability to leave oneself alone. However, the path to this goal can vary.
The advantage of hypnosis for skin picking is that we can tackle the problem directly in the subconscious. This approach therefore has a higher probability of success than many other treatment methods.
Experience has shown that there are many reasons for stress and overwhelming emotions.
However, the solution is often a calmer way of dealing with feelings. If we can hypnotically bring calm to our inner life, we can reduce stress. And this usually has a positive effect. The calmness then often spreads to the skin.
Leaving it alone has two meanings and is often the first step in acute cases.
Our perception of ourselves has a major influence on our behavior. And it is precisely this perception and evaluation that we can influence with hypnosis.
In this way, we can transform the assessment of skin picking in treatment from "bad" and "wrong" to "ok". This has the great advantage that the behavior no longer causes stress, as it is then neither good nor bad, but simply ok.
This has a generally positive influence on self-image and reduces rejection.
Many people always talk about self-love. However, love is not always the best guide. When I do skin picking therapy with hypnosis, the basis is therefore self-respect.
If we respect someone, we usually leave them alone and don't pick on them. This respect can also lead to liking.
If this happens to ourselves, we can stop skin picking and switch to positive self-care.
So with hypnotherapy we learn to tackle the same problems and emotions, but in a positive, uplifting way.
Those who respect themselves look after themselves and their own skin, even in stressful situations.
Dermatillomania online therapy with hypnosis is an effective method for treating skin picking disorder. By using hypnosis techniques, the underlying causes and triggers of the compulsive behavior can be identified and dealt with.
Skin picking online hypnotherapy offers the advantage that it can be carried out from the comfort of your own home and can therefore be flexibly integrated into your everyday life. It gives those affected the opportunity to receive help with skin picking from anywhere and improve their quality of life in the long term.
Hypnosis helps with skin picking by directly addressing the underlying unconscious causes. By resolving the psychological causes, the skin can be left alone and there is the necessary support to stop skin picking. Skin picking treatment with hypnotherapy can also be used in combination with other therapy methods.
Do you find yourself putting off important tasks? Have you tried all sorts of techniques to motivate yourself, but nothing seems to work? If so, hypnosis against procrastination could be the answer you've been looking for.
Procrastination is a widespread phenomenon that many people experience in their daily lives. It can affect productivity, satisfaction and general well-being. Procrastination can sometimes be attributed to a lack of motivation or discipline, but can also be the result of deeper psychological or emotional issues. Hypnosis is a tool that has gained popularity in recent years as a possible solution to procrastination.
In this article, I will explain how hypnosis can be used as an effective treatment for procrastination and procrastinationitis. We'll look at how it can help you overcome your own procrastination issues. Read on to find out more about how this ancient therapeutic method can help you succeed in your life!
There are many reasons for procrastination and perpetual postponement. Be it due to fear of failure, a lack of self-worth or self-respect or unrealistic goals.
Many of those affected have the feeling that they are simply lazy. Experience has shown that it is hardly ever "just laziness", but that very often forms of self-rejection are hidden behind it. Fortunately, hypnosis is an effective tool against procrastination that can help those affected to find the cause of their problem and develop successful strategies for dealing with it.
Hypnosis enables people to become aware of their unconscious patterns of thought and behavior, as well as unconscious intentions, which may be contributing to the problem of procrastination. Through hypnosis, they can better tune into the feelings and emotions associated with the activities they are avoiding.
Hypnotherapy enables sufferers to directly engage their subconscious mind to recognize the reasons for avoiding certain activities or tasks. With this new awareness comes understanding, control over one's thoughts and emotions and a new sense of purpose in accomplishing the tasks at hand.
Hypnosis is a popular treatment method for various problems, including procrastination. By recognizing the causes and the possibility of directly influencing them unconsciously, hypnosis can help to find the drive and motivation.
During hypnosis sessions, clients are put into a hypnotic state and receive suggestions that can help their unconscious mind to reorganize their thoughts and behaviour. Clients are encouraged to focus on their goals and work towards them without letting fear or anxiety hold them back. All kinds of emotions associated with moving forward can be addressed with hypnosis.
The hypnotic suggestions can also give the patient new perspectives on their actions and decisions in order to free themselves from patterns of procrastination. This can be an effective tool to motivate people and realize their goals. With the help of hypnotherapy, individuals can learn to manage their emotions and behavior to overcome procrastination.
Hypnosis is an effective method that can help people overcome procrastination. It has been proven to help people improve their self-control and self-discipline. Hardly any other method can achieve this so quickly and efficiently, because hypnosis works directly on the unconscious mind. The conscious mind does not even have to understand what exactly is going on. In this way, we can bypass all forms of self-criticism, self-doubt, bad conscience and the like and make positive progress.
In addition, as explained above, we can better identify and resolve the causes. Procrastination often also has a positive intention, but this can be better achieved in other ways. In this way, we turn all conscious and unconscious parts into a team that pulls together.
Hypnosis makes it possible to direct the focus and thus the concentration. When all the negative feelings are left out, the tasks themselves become less of a challenge. This sorting out leads to higher productivity and less time lost to procrastination. Hypnosis also makes it possible to change thought patterns and release blockages, so that negative thoughts can be replaced by more positive ones, which helps him to stay on the right track and not to tackle upcoming tasks at the last minute.
Many people confuse procrastination with laziness. Procrastination is not necessarily a sign of a lack of motivation or effort, but rather of negative emotions associated with the task. Laziness is just a superficial way of looking at something that goes much deeper. Our unconscious wants to protect us from harm. For example, if we have unattainable goals or feel very incapable, then logically the most sensible thing to do is nothing. The pressure we put on ourselves when we should be doing something but are putting it off can also lead to such a protective reaction.
In the vast majority of cases, procrastination has its roots in anxiety and a lack of self-esteem. To really overcome procrastination, it is important to understand why we do it in the first place and how it affects our self-esteem.
It can be hard to do something without hesitation when our minds are full of worry and doubt about our own abilities. Afraid of failing or not living up to expectations, we put off tasks until the last minute or don't tackle them at all. This behavior can be incredibly damaging to our self-esteem as we feel guilty for not following through with our plans and begin to doubt ourselves even more.
So what can you do? It's important to combat the negative thoughts that are holding you back from taking action. If we see ourselves as capable and worthy, no matter what the outcome, then we can go forth liberated. If we can build self-confidence and your self-worth with hypnosis, then we also influence the diligence of the work.
There are some forms of professional help to stop procrastination. Hypnotherapy for procrastination is one way to address the root cause of this behavior and break the cycle.
Hypnosis for procrastination is a form of hypnotherapy that helps people become more aware of their thoughts, feelings and behaviors related to procrastination. It helps people learn how to react differently in order to free themselves from their habitual patterns of behavior.
Hypnotherapy is not a magic pill, but a form of psychotherapeutic treatment. The changes are therefore usually not only visible in work activities, but in many areas of life, whether at home or in everyday life.
Online hypnotherapy against procrastination is an effective way of overcoming the habit of putting things off until the last minute. It is becoming increasingly popular to combat the psychological effects of self-doubt and the pathological procrastination that accompanies it. Online therapy is becoming more common due to its convenience. It can be done from the comfort of your own home and works just as well as offline therapy.
Online hypnotherapy against procrastination helps people to focus on their goals, break down large tasks into smaller ones and gain confidence in their abilities. The process helps them recognize patterns in their behavior and encourages them to take positive steps towards healthy change. By making positive lifestyle choices, such as setting realistic expectations and avoiding distractions, they can improve their overall mental wellbeing and better manage their time.
By using online hypnotherapy for procrastination, individuals can find a safe space to find solutions to their problems and make meaningful changes in their behavior. If you are also putting off procrastination therapy, then online hypnosis is a very good way to finally take the first step
The cost depends on individual needs and the length and complexity of the chosen program. In some cases, several sessions are required to achieve the desired results. In my case, one session costs 150Fr. and lasts one hour. Most of my clients come for between 2-5 sessions. They often have two or more weeks in between to give the changes time to take effect.
Procrastination is a common problem that people struggle with these days. It can be caused by a number of factors, including negative emotions, fear of failure and low self-esteem. Hypnosis is an effective treatment for procrastination that has been proven to help people optimize their behavior and focus intentions on their well-being. It can lead to better concentration and productivity in the long term and improve overall wellbeing.
Anyone considering hypnotherapy for procrastination should know that it requires a financial investment. However, the cost of the therapy should be seen as an investment in yourself and in the results that come with positive change.
Overall, hypnosis, although it requires an investment of time and money, can be an extremely effective treatment for procrastination.
Procrastination is the behaviour of repeatedly putting off tasks or responsibilities and pursuing distractions or other activities instead. It is a widespread phenomenon that can affect both professional and private areas of life.
There are many reasons why people procrastinate, including fear of failure, excessive demands, perfectionism, lack of motivation and self-regulation. Procrastination can also be a symptom of depression or anxiety. The unconscious wants to protect us from harm and so slams on the brakes
Yes, hypnosis can help treat procrastination by helping to change negative thought patterns or deep-rooted fears or beliefs that cause procrastination.
The number of sessions needed to successfully treat procrastination can vary depending on the person and their individual condition. However, several sessions are usually required to achieve long-term changes.
Are you tired of the constant pressure to be perfect? Do you feel trapped in a cycle of self-criticism and fear of failure? Hypnotherapy can help you get rid of perfectionism.
Hypnosis against perfectionism offers a solution to break out of this exhausting pattern. The beliefs and emotions that drive perfectionism are often unconscious and cannot be reached with the conscious mind alone.
I often hear "I know it's not good for me, but..." So it's hardly possible to achieve lasting change with your head alone.
Hypnosis, on the other hand, can help to develop a more balanced and compassionate view of oneself on a subconscious level.
It's time to let go of the grip of perfectionism and live a more fulfilling and balanced life.
Perfectionism is characterized by a perfectionist mindset, where unrealistically high expectations are placed on oneself and sometimes others. This mindset often leads to increased anxiety, as perfectionists are constantly worried about making mistakes or failing to meet their own unattainably high standards. This striving for perfection can often lead to success in certain areas such as work, but what I often see with my clients is that other areas are neglected. As a result, their own existence is often described as "functioning" rather than "living".
Unconsciously, one's own identity is mixed up with one's own activity and so one has to constantly do one's best just to be enough. Very often I also see an increased need for recognition, especially from authority figures.
Perfectionists therefore often experience increased stress levels, lower self-esteem and are more prone to developing anxiety and depression, even if they are successful at work or sport.
Perfectionism can also be a strain on relationships, as people with perfectionist tendencies can place unrealistic expectations on others, which can lead to tense interactions and feelings of disappointment. The conscientiousness in every activity that many perfectionists have is then often lacking in their partner, leading to relationship problems. Conversely, the constant fear of not being enough can also lead to excessive "wanting to be right" or clinging.
Recognizing the negative effects of perfectionism is the first step to overcoming it and promoting a healthier approach to performance and personal growth.
Hypnosis can help people overcome perfectionism by reducing their subconscious beliefs and demands to a manageable level. Not operating behind all the time can also promote self-acceptance.
Our own identity and "being good" is brought from within in order to free it from the high expectations and also bring it to a level of "at least ok". If we can reduce self-criticism, then we expand the scope for positive developments.
Through hypnosis, we can discover and resolve the causes of perfectionist behavior. Even if many people don't want to hear it, the truth is that we find the earliest causes in childhood with the parents. Sometimes it is the upbringing or the parenting methods, sometimes it is simply the self-esteem that is exemplified, which makes children hard and self-critical. Sometimes this manifests itself at an early age, e.g. in exam nerves or performance anxiety.
Hypnotherapy helps to direct the learned self-treatment in a benevolent way and to leave other views outside. This can often put an end to brooding and promote spontaneity, which then also increases the quality of life.
In addition, hypnosis promotes self-awareness, which makes it possible to recognize one's own successes as such.
To overcome perfectionist tendencies, you have to realize that perfection is an unattainable goal and that striving for it only leads to stress and dissatisfaction.
The challenge of unrealistic standards is to set more realistic and achievable goals and focus on progress rather than perfection. Reducing self-criticism also means practicing self-compassion and acknowledging that mistakes, imperfections and overachievement are a natural part of growth and learning.
Developing a growth mindset means embracing challenges and seeing them as opportunities for growth rather than failures. Fostering self-compassion and self-respect means being kind to yourself and treating yourself with the same understanding and forgiveness you would likely offer others.
Truly successful people have all realized that you can only have lasting success in life if you live in balance. Hard work also requires deep relaxation as a balance and being able to do this is one of the goals of perfectionism therapy.
One-sidedness is against nature and so it is also necessary not to treat yourself like a broken robot but like a complete living being and an intact human being.
It is possible to build a benevolent self-image if we can replace the perpetuating beliefs with positive ones. Hypnosis is a very effective tool for this, as we can access unconscious resources and possibilities in order to renounce flawlessness and instead achieve a complete and contented life.
Shedding perfectionism with hypnosis can be the first step towards a more pleasant and balanced future.
In order to use hypnosis for the fight against addiction, we must first understand understand what addiction is. The definition of addiction is the irresistible craving for a substance or condition. So this addiction can be substance or non-substance. Generally speaking, you can be addicted to just about anything. If we have a desire for it, then it can already tend towards addiction or dependence. dependence.
Often, however, the transition between normal behavior and addiction is fluid. With substances, one speaks of abuse when the consumption of normal use becomes addictive behavior. In such cases we also speak of dependence syndrome. At the latest when the behavior becomes harmful and dysfunctional in relation to the addictive substance, it becomes becomes clear to most that something is wrong. Since addiction is considered a disease the term addictive disease is often used.
So, curing the sufferers from addiction is the goal of addiction therapy with hypnosis.
The unconscious mind, which we all have, is usually very pragmatic. It takes the solution it has available and often the one that is easiest. This has apparently proven itself in the course of evolution. It also relies on the reward center in the brain. This evaluates our world, so to speak, according to the amount of happiness hormones released.
That which helps us survive is still rewarded with good feelings. Addictive substances trigger exactly these good feelings. Either because they fit the 4 Fs of survival, like food or sex, or because they simulate something to our brain, like cocaine or computer games.
Most people have various possibilities to reach their desired feelings of happiness. If many things fit, we have a good foundation of satisfaction and a good inner feeling of wholeness. People with such a good basis can usually also consume addictive substances from time to time without becoming dependent.
People who develop a dependency (getting hooked) and get hooked on the addictive substance like a fish on a hook, therefore, have other causes than just consumption. The worm alone is not enough, the hook is also needed.
But what is this hook that is present in some and not in others?
I have dealt with many clients who were addicted to a wide variety of substances. substances and it was always similar in the end: something that is missing.
Our unconscious is always looking for wholeness and balance. So when we lack something, it is not simply left out. It is replaced by something else that has a similar effect. So if we lack the good feelings from the inside, it will have to be supplied from the outside.
Das Unbewusstsein schliesst die Lücke so gut es kann. Dort wo eigentlich etwas anderes sein sollte, wie zum Beispiel gute Familienverhältnisse, Selbstwert, Optimismus, ein starkes Selbstbewusstsein, Erfüllung, ein gestärkter Sinn für sich etc. kommen die Suchtmittel hin. Sucht Schweiz nennt diese Mängel «Risikofaktoren».
Aus «nur einmal ausprobieren» wird das Mittel um die Leere zu füllen. Und je grösser die Lücke klafft, desto mehr und stärkeres muss konsumiert werden, um das Loch zu füllen.
Most people at the beginning of an addiction still think that they have everything under control. They think they are "strong enough" to stop again. That may be true, but with addiction problems, sheer willpower is usually not enough.
One of the reasons for this is that dependence increases over time. This is because our unconscious processes rely more and more on the addictive substance. Since consumption is usually the easiest way to achieve feelings of happiness, other, less stimulating activities take a back seat. The whole life revolves more and more around something.
The addictive substance becomes the only solution to certain or even all problems. Therefore, it is logical that the craving then also becomes greater and greater, even if we no longer want it.
Often, the first attempt to stop is made at some point. This causes massive stress for the entire system. And what does the addict do to relieve stress? He reaches for the addictive substance. This vicious circle often nips addiction cessation in the bud.
If you notice that you are reducing yourself more and more to the addictive substance and can no longer stop on your own, it is time to get help. A wide variety of methods can be used to do this.
Hypnotherapy is one of the therapy methods whose effect is increasingly proven. For example, in one study, hypnosis in groups was shown to have a 77% success rate after at least one year in alcohol addicts.
What makes hypnosis so effective for fighting addiction is that we can get to the root of the addiction. We deliver the appropriate interventions directly to the unconscious. That is, we give the unconscious direct suggestions to what is really what makes the difference.
Many actions that addicts take are neither logical nor make sense to the conscious mind. What I often hear is "I know it makes no sense, but I do it anyway". This is a classic case of unconscious dynamics that cannot be influenced better by any other method than hypnosis. To be able to change something in the processes of the subconscious, we use hypnosis for addictions.
What is important to say beforehand: In the minds of many people there is still the idea that in hypnosis it happens in such a way that the hypnotist or hypnotherapist snaps his fingers, the client faints and upon awakening all problems are solved forever. Sure, there are still hypnotists who offer such things, but professional hypnosis looks different. Anyone who comes to a hypnosis practice with the idea that hypnosis will "fix you from the outside" will almost always be disappointed. Especially with addictions and hypnosis, there is often the idea that everything is solved with a flick of the wrist. That's why I'm writing this as an explanation.
Hypnosis can make a lot of things easier and sometimes even be the only way to get away from something, but usually not in one session. And actually it always takes change to change something.
Wenn wir also mit den passenden Erwartungen an die Sache herangehen, dann können wir grosse Erfolge haben.
Addiction therapy with hypnosis is tailored to each client. The interventions with hypnosis can be as different as the person himself.
In order for me to get the whole picture, I involve my clients' whole selves. So we don't just talk about the addiction or problems in the algine mind, but also about resources. This is important so that we can use what is there. So we see what is there and what is missing. In hypnotherapy we use everything that the client brings with him.
On an unconscious level, we also search for the causes or the hooks that make us cling to the addiction. These dynamics are often unconscious, which is why it is also important to search for clues here.
When we have found what is missing, then we can set about building it.
To really get away from addiction, it usually takes an inner strength that goes far beyond "pure willpower". In order to be able to stand firm enough, you also need a good foundation of inner convictions and feelings. This positive inner atmosphere and sense of self that contain the risk and act as protective factors against relapse.
Wenn diese grundlegenden Aspekte nicht vorhanden sind, dann können wir sie zuerst entwickeln (lassen) im Innern.
Self-healing in addicts can include many things. Not only the physical healing in case of damage, but also the mental healing is meant. Healing hypnosis works in many areas.
Many people behave differently than they would otherwise because of the disease of addiction. For this reason, you often find a lot of self-loathing among addicts. Healing these psychological wounds is often a big part of fighting addiction and preventing relapse.
It doesn't necessarily have to be self-forgiveness, but the view of one's own value has a big impact. Whoever feels himself to be valuable enough again, can also be worth it again not to do the addictive stuff to himself anymore. Those who feel guilty accept almost any punishment, including the life of an addict.
If we also use hypnotherapy to cause the mental wounds to heal and increase self-worth, then these one-sidednesses in life can be resolved again.
Once it has been possible to get away from the addictive substance for a certain time, then the greatest danger is to relapse again. If old patterns of addiction show up again, then this is usually an indication that in certain cases the unconscious still reaches for the addictive substance in order to try to solve certain problems. Therefore, it is important for relapse prevention to learn and practice the emotional skills to recognize these situations and inner processes early enough.
If something like this is recognized, the conscious mind can also help and learn to intervene directly. For example, through active self-hypnosis. This is also trained in the comprehensive treatment concept.
The goal of treatment of addiction is that the addictive substance is no longer needed. Not only in the sense of taking away the craving, but also to develop such inner competencies that it no longer needs a substitute.
Hypnotic addiction treatment from the ground up is designed to change sensibilities, thinking and behavior so that addictive substances are no longer needed as a crutch to get through life.
Hypnosis for the treatment of addiction helps on several levels and also where the conscious mind has no direct access.
This gives us options for treating addiction that can make all the important difference.
Hypnosis has helped many lead addiction-free lives and should be included in any treatment for addiction.
It is believed that about one fifth of all people struggle with shyness. Some accept it and count being intimidated among their character traits. Others look for a way to get rid of shyness. If you're reading this, you probably belong to the second group.
Hypnosis helps with shyness on an unconscious level. Since shyness has a lot to do with one's own felt identity and relationship with the outside world, hypnotherapy is very suitable for getting rid of shyness.
Old beliefs and blockages can be dissolved and we can make room for a natural, healthy self-confidence.
How the whole thing works I explain to you here. So that we can treat the shyness from the ground up, the reasons must also be able to
There are many theories about how shyness develops. Science has identified many characteristics that can promote shy behavior. Among them is the perception of the world. Also different centers in the brain are held responsible for it and the even partial shyness is considered to be the result of genetic inheritance.
Some say introversion is the trigger and it is simply an unchangeable trait.
A lot of things may be true, but first of all this is a bit too top-heavy and secondly I am not a fan of "that's just the way it is, there's nothing we can do about it except learn to deal with it" when it comes to stressful characteristics. Because my experience shows me that with the willingness to change something, we can usually change something.
And anyway: shy people generally have the tendency to think too much. So I think we can make it a little easier for ourselves: Shyness comes from being intimidated. When other people intimidate me, I logically react with shyness. The exception is only the shy people who overcompensate. But basically, the uncomfortable feeling arises from the presence of other people.
So the shyness is a result of the relationship of "I and the others". If "the others" are felt to be big and I feel small, then the fear is a logical reaction.
But how does this "me small, others big" come about?
In the many hours I've worked with people with social anxiety, there's hardly been one where we haven't talked about parenting.
No living being thinks of itself that "the others" are more important than itself. Such thinking and especially feeling is almost always a result of education.
Many parents mean no harm when they want to instill a certain kind of manners in their children. However, the "I" is often overshadowed by the "man.
If too much emphasis is placed on "what do others think" in public behavior, then one's own development is inhibited bit by bit.
If there is no agreement, either one's own feelings are more important or those of others.
If one is now sent into the world as a well-behaved child with this way of thinking, experiences of a negative nature are often added to this.
Those who have learned to take a back seat hardly stand a chance against those who do not.
So our clever unconscious recognizes social interaction as a source of emotional and sometimes even physical pain.
Since pain and being hurt is not great, it starts to want to protect us from it. And how does the unconscious communicate that something is dangerous? With inhibitions and fear.
Just as we have learned not to touch the stove top, education and experience have made "the others" seemingly big and dangerous.
When the feelings and needs of others take precedence in a conflict, the only solution is to avoid the conflict. Thus, a withdrawal and intimidation takes place.
Most shy people are very empathetic. That's actually a good thing. But just because you have a big heart, you shouldn't let everyone in.
Those who look at the world too much from the point of view of others are often not in touch with themselves enough.
In such cases it is clear that one withdraws. Those who cannot yet decide with whom they feel sympathy must withdraw in order to keep some energy for themselves.
A certain amount of shyness is quite normal in children. At certain stages, it is even part of healthy development. In the process, this relationship between "me and the others" settles down. And if you have your first experience of what assholes other children can be, you can't blame them for shying away to a certain extent.
However, the well-adjusted adult should have learned one or another method of dealing with other people. Whether they are sympathetic or not.
Certain mistakes in upbringing should also have been eradicated. One of the bad realizations of growing up should have been that you realized that mom wasn't always right either and therefore you don't always have to let others go first.
But if you're still overly shy on the road as an adult, that may be an indication that it hasn't happened naturally yet.
So if you're an adult and still struggling with shyness, it may be time to change something on the inside.
Certain of my clients who are plagued by shyness tell me that many people around them don't even realize how shy they actually are. Often those around them think that someone who is actually shy, that person is cold or arrogant. Others cover up their social insecurity with exuberance, which ultimately also puts off the person across from them.
While this is a good way to avoid social situations (e.g., by simply not being invited), it is not particularly conducive to good social interactions. On the contrary, it can make the problem worse, since an arrogant or pushy demeanor generally leads to rejection, which then leads to more intimidation, which then leads to more defensiveness and arrogance.
So this circle should be broken as soon as possible and replaced by a healthy self-confidence.
So what can you do about shyness? Hypnosis of course
Shyness is considered a disease when there is great suffering because of it. In such a case, it is called a social phobia, which is considered a mental disorder. The transition is fluid and therefore about the same applies to both.
There are many tips on how to overcome shyness. However, a conscious change of behavior is often not the whole solution. Far too often, people make plans to appear courageous or self-confident, only to react intimidated again in the moment.
Of course, there is a place for courage in such cases, but the relationship between "I and the others" must be fundamentally clarified.
Only if we also unconsciously and instinctively display the self-confident behavior, it is possible to permanently overcome shyness. So the self-confidence must come one way or another from within and by itself.
To create these changes at the deepest level, there is hardly a better way than hypnosis. When we use hypnotherapy to replace shyness with something more useful, the changes often come about all by themselves. So that nothing has to be played anymore, but instead it is really felt.
If you want to stand up for yourself with all your heart, you should also allow yourself to feel everything that is there. And this is an important part of getting rid of shyness with hypnosis. Because in the hypnotic trance there is a coming together of all the parts that otherwise function independently.
You can think of these parts as the heart and the head, or the inner and outer self, or the unconscious and the conscious. Either way, all parts must pull together if you want to be confident and secure.
If the others seem big and we ourselves seem small, then we have to change this view. Most people would know how to grow internally. Especially when you want to stay calm in certain situations, you are advised to find your inner center.
But there is not only rest, but above all power. For as we say, there is not strength in rest, but rest in strength. He who is strong can also remain calm. This is confirmed not only by the bear.
If we hypnotically activate this inner power and allow the strong heart to beat only for us, then this growth can come about. The others become smaller, while we ourselves become bigger.
In this way, we also clarify the relationship. When one's own feelings are allowed to become so intense that the others are overshadowed, then it also becomes clear which ones are more important.
If we learn to overcome our limitations and inhibitions, we can also overcome shyness with hypnosis.
People who are shy often want to come out of their shell. But they are often stopped in their tracks by certain blockades. "Can I only look for myself?" I am often asked. "Yes" I usually say, "If you don't like to lift your own backpack, you shouldn't let others do it for you".
With hypnosis we can make the corset of education a little wider, so that there is air to breathe. Most of the time we don't have to throw away everything we were taught, but we have to sort out what doesn't fit and what inhibits. This way we can release the inner blocks and develop more self-confidence with hypnosis.
When the space of possibilities is expanded, it becomes possible to come out of oneself. When one's own feelings are no longer doubted, one usually allows oneself to show them.
Shyness is basically also a way to protect ourselves. But if we no longer want to simply avoid social situations, then we need a different form of self-protection in such moments. It works best when we learn to close ourselves up inside. Grow a thicker skin, so to speak.
With the methods of hypnotherapy we can stimulate exactly that inside. There are different types of suggestion for this, but it is important to separate the outer from the inner in such a way that the good stays inside and the bad outside.
Thus, it is possible to protect the inner atmosphere in such a way that one can be on the road confidently and free from shyness.
If we start to communicate and influence on the unconscious level, then we can also do something against possible loneliness and isolation. Because if we allow ourselves to divide people into those who are important to us and those who may be indifferent to us, then we can open up where it is good and close where it does not fit.
This promotes social skills and also allows for creative opportunities, even with people who are not familiar.
We have seen that how we deal with the outside depends essentially on how we deal with the inside. How we perceive our environment is determined by ourselves. Or rather, our unconscious determines it.
So if we want to get rid of the essential inner workings that sustain shyness, we need an approach to it. Just consciously setting out to do something is usually not enough.
That is why hypnosis is the best choice for shyness. Because with the methods of hypnotherapy we can apply targeted changes at the unconscious level, which bit by bit reduce shyness and promote relaxation with hypnosis.
The transition from shyness to social phobia can be smooth. It can occur when speaking in public, eating, or simply being around a certain number of people. Often the fear is also related to the belief of knowing what others think about you.
You don't have to be the most extroverted people pleaser. However, if the avoidance behavior becomes stronger and stronger or the restrictions too great, it goes rather in the direction of sociophobia or social anxiety disorder. The earlier one takes influence on the problem, the faster it can often be solved.
Treatment of social anxiety with hypnosis can bring very big changes. The nature of the problem makes hypnotherapy a great help for social phobia. The unconscious causes can be directly addressed in the hypnotic trance.
In the history of mankind, people were always dependent on other people. So if others have determined to a certain extent about the own extinction, it was meaningful to be interested in what others think of you and whether the opinion of "the others" about you is positive or negative. The human unconsciousness has also developed in this way.
However, when these "others" become a multi-headed monster to be afraid of, something has gone wrong.
A large part of hypnosis is the relationship between inside and outside. How we react internally to something external can hardly be changed without hypnosis, because this lies in the sphere of influence of the unconscious. The conscious mind can try as hard as it likes, if the unconscious mind does not play along, usually only a short-term change is possible, if at all.
Conversely, our behavior towards the outside is determined by our inside. A person who feels anxious or insecure is more likely to avoid upsetting situations than a person who feels comfortable and strong. If we evaluate ourselves as good on the inside, we expect the same from others and vice versa.
The focus and allocation of importance to the inside and the outside also has an influence. If we want to get rid of a social phobia, we must inevitably give less attention or importance to the outside.
The unconscious assessment of the self is of course very important in self-worth and self-confidence and also makes dealing with anxiety easier.
There can be many triggers for social anxiety disorder. In life, we automatically and unconsciously learn something about ourselves. Be it from parents in childhood or social situations: somewhere affected people have learned that social situations are threatening for them. The unconscious then reacts to this threat with fear, trembling, sweating, freezing, blushing and much more.
In order for us to overcome social phobia, we often have to forget what we have learned about ourselves.
Social phobia therapy with hypnosis can include many different aspects. For example, symptom management issues, such as alcohol or medication use, often need to be included in treatment. Many people with social anxiety disorder also experience themselves as unable to relate in some way or do not know how to relate to others. Part of hypnotherapy is often also building instinctual unconscious social skills. So, so to speak, the practical part to all the theoretical advice you can read everywhere.
The answer to this question I can say from social phobia therapy experience: Yes, it's quite possible. I have often experienced almost miraculous transformations when we were able to hypnotically release and forget the old.
Social anxiety is absolutely curable, but it often takes longer than certain sufferers hope for in hypnotherapy. Due to the interconnectedness with sometimes very many experiences of even traumatic nature, it usually takes several sessions.
If the seclusion has also caused depression, for example, we must of course treat that as well.
Hypnosis brings many tools for change. For example, we can weaken or even dissolve and replace the old negative experiences and memories. Directing the focus is also an important part of hypnosis.
By working in the unconscious mind, we can address the blockages and fears more directly than with many other methods. We do not so much want to fight the social anxiety as to bring the unconscious, positive intentions behind it into a more effective form. In this way, we can use the energy that was previously wasted on negative thoughts for positive development.
Hypnosis can also help with speech anxiety or fear of commitment with the effect in the unconscious. Furthermore, hypnosis can help to reduce the negative self-image that has led to the fears in social situations.
So with hypnosis it can become possible to overcome even a strong social anxiety and to build up and use the resources it takes to stay free of anxiety and calm in social situations.
Those who lack basic trust will notice this sooner or later. At some point in life, that certain something is missing. Basic trust is the basis for most good feelings in life. It is also the basis for self-confidence and self-esteem.
It is said that one can build up the basic trust only in the earliest childhood. However, with the special properties of hypnosis it is possible to make up for missed basic trust.
Primal confidence is basically an inner atmosphere or mood. If the childhood atmosphere was positive, then the unconscious will retain this as the basic mood. The information about the nature of the world is transmitted to the child by the parents. This info is stored as a basic feeling in the unconscious and has the goal to prepare the child for life. Those who live in a cold world should not have too much confidence. However, if you are surrounded by loving and caring people, you can be a child at will.
Toddlers do not yet have knowledge about how the world should be. However, they are still fully connected to their needs. These are quite similar for most of them. If these needs for security, nest warmth, etc. are met, then the child also experiences itself positively. It learns how good it can feel. That it gets what it needs and desires.
When the feelings are positively reciprocated, the child stays connected to the feelings. It realizes that these are desired and "good".
However, if the child's feelings, desires and needs are ignored or rejected, the child learns to lock them away or push them away. A deficiency in one or more areas occurs. The basic trust in the world is reduced. The child learns that his ego and feelings do not have a high value in the world.
If the basic trust is lacking, the basic state and feeling is not positive. This can show itself in many areas. Many things do not feel right or really good. Even professionally successful people can experience this lack by not feeling their success.
With a lack of basic confidence, you always seem to be behind. The general mood is not good and one is also rather fearful and not very robust. This fear can also express itself in anger when one has learned that sadness is weakness.
With a weak foundation, not much other trust can be built. Neither in oneself nor in others. If you have learned that you can be disappointed in the next person, you often find it difficult to build positive love relationships, for example.
Those who are not connected to their feelings, or who feel that they are less important, never really know if what they are doing is right.
There always seems to be something missing.
The general opinion is that it is no longer possible to build the basic trust. However, those who have learned hypnosis know that it is always possible to change something. So we also say that it is never too late for a beautiful childhood.
Hypnosis gives us the opportunity to give ourselves what is still missing. This is not meant as a change of childhood memories, but as an improvement of the basic trust and the positive basic feeling.
With hypnosis we can address the innermost that has defied all odds. When we feel that something is missing, we know where it should be and how it should feel. Through this idea of purpose, it is also possible to get what has been missing from the outside from the inside.
Most of the time, we can hypnotically build the primordial trust in this way, even if childhood was not optimal.
Hypnotherapy is not directly aimed at changing the memory of the past or forgetting what was, but it is mainly our goal to change what has been unconsciously learned from it. We cannot change the past, but we can change how we deal with it. We can draw different lessons and a different feeling from it.
The lack of the positive basic mood has arisen from the fact that the environment has taught us that it is not trustworthy. Whether it was caused by the parents or others: Somehow it has been taken over. This has taken place mainly because as a child you don't have the opportunity to leave your environment. So you had to adapt internally.
But if we approach it with the possibilities of the adult, a change is possible. In this way we open new ways to inner resources, which allow to tune the inner atmosphere positively.
When we can let go of the old negative situations, it gives room for new, positive feelings. This inner mood also allows to change the view of oneself and to draw from the full.
Even if this seems unimaginable for many with a lack of basic trust: this is also connected with the realization that nothing is missing and that nothing has been broken within.
That is, as long as you have a pulse, it is possible to develop a new basic feeling.
Even with negative experiences as a child, it is possible to build a basic trust with hypnosis. Through the possibilities of hypnotherapy, we also have access to deeply rooted learning contents and can change them appropriately.
